benarkan berubah

benarkah selepas berkahwin....hubungan kite ngan orang tertentu akan berubah??

selepas berkahwin, kehidupan kite akan terbahagi kepada beberapa bahagian - suami, keluarga sendiri, keluarga belah suami, anak dan diri sendiri... mungkin akan ade perubahan pada cara hidup kita...mungkin kita tidak lagi keluar pada tengah  malam untuk tengok wayang...mungkin kita tidak lagi bershopping bersama rakan-rakan sepanjang hari suntuk....mungkin kita tidak lagi lepak di starbuck dari pagi sampai malam... kerana..kita sudah berkeluarga....banyak tanggungjawab kene laksanakan...

bukan mudah menjaga hati dan perasaan kedua-dua belah pihak...bukan shj  menjaga perasaan suami dan keluarga mertua...tp termasuklah ipar duai, biras2, sepupu sepapa...dan ramai lagi... malah bukan mudah menjaga hati dan perasaan ahli keluarga kite sendiri... jika terlebih di sebelah sana, sebelah sini berkecil hati, jika terlebih di sebelah sini, sebelah sana pula terasa...terasa sukar kan?

malah..perasaan rakan-rakan juga  perlu dijaga... ade yg berkate..

" ko ni lepas kawenn, senyap je"

" ko ni lepas kawen sombong la"

"ko ni lepas kawen dh lain la..x meriah cm dulu"

hmmm..bagaimana perlu dijelaskan....bukan kite sombong, jauh sekali berubah...tetapi bukan mudah menyesuaikan diri..mencari keseimbangan antara kehidupan dulu dan kehidupan sekarang...bagilah masa..bile dh bersesuaian..pasti meriah kembali...

suami sy bukan lah jenis yang control atau menyekat kebebasan sy..malah kami saling memberi kebebasan..asalkan tahu limit....

sy sebenarnye terfikir....adakah kerana sy sudah kawen... hubungan saya dengan sepupu saya itu berubah..menjadi pelik mcm x pnh kenal n x pnh rapat pun...padahal dulu...dialah kakak, dialah tempat mengadu, tempat mengumpat...tempat semuanya...tetapi kini.... kami renggang...ntah r....dia seperti membawa diri....sy pun xtaw...ape salah saya? adakah saya ade mengguris perasaannye...sy sudah memohon maaf...ye la..sy kn adik...biar sy la yg mengalah.... tp begitu juga hasilnya...

setiapkali jumpe dia masih menjauhkn diri... xtaw la...sy buntu...

sy berbincang juga dgn en suami....en suami kate...biarlah..nanti dia sejuk la tuh....

harap2 begitulah...harap2 kami akan rapat seperti sediakala...

saya rindu saat gembira dulu.....i missed the good old days...

ape pun...sy gembira nak pindah cherating...semuga kehidupan sy bersama suami n baby akan lebih bahagia dan diberkati.... insyaAllah....

Rezeki..

perkahwinan sy hampir memasuki 7 bulan...cepat sungguh masa berlalu.... alhamdulillah.... kami masih bahagia..semuga kebahagian ini trus milik kami....

as wedding crite dh tamat.... n i am not talking bout my vendors or such....

i am talking about a new topic in my life.... a new stage of my life.... =)

Alhamdulillah.... rezeki Allah itu ade utk setiap hambanya.... 4 bulan yang lalu saya mendapat rezeki yang sungguh tinggi nilainya....amat2 bersyukur....

alhamdulillah...impian kami suami isteri dimakbulkan...

insyaAllah...akn bertambah ahli keluarga pada tarikh ulang tahun perkahwinan kami... (^__^)

so.... skrng review pasal baby items je la....

n what to do n dont sepanjang proses menjadi mommy =)

banyak sangat benda kene belajar...syukur semua ahli keluarga memberi bantuan.. =)

berakhirnye perkahwinan jarak jauh

tersentuh saya untuk menulis setelah membace post Pn.hazlynda...yes...perkahwinan jarak jauh (PJJ)...it is such a trend nowdays...bukan pengantin tuh suke2 je nk dok jauh2...tapi keadaan yang memaksa..jika tidak...mesti takde orang nk dok jauh2 ng hubby/wifey kn? tapi commitment kerje memakse kite...
benar apabila sudah selesa....maka kite akan kurang berusaha utk hidup bersama...seorg rakan saya...sudah 2 thn hidup berjauhan....pelbagai usaha si isteri nk pindah..si suami pula semakin byk alasan.. sebenarnye si suami selesa hidup di rumah bujang, melepak bersama rakan2 bujang...si isteri yg sarat mengandung...sorang2 pula... ini pengalaman rakan saya...kesian dia...si suami ajak pindah dua tahun lagi!

saya juga seorg PJJ...hubby d kuantan, sy di shah alam... apekn daya...sy bekerje...dia jua... memang saya boley brenti klo sy nak...tp...ekonomi kami sendri belum stabil lagi...

alhamdulillah...company sy keje skrng ade buka branch di sana...sy dgn volunteer nye mintak pindah..walo dgr ura2 yg lab tuh akan tutup.....walo byk jgk kerje je...walo byk kerenah boss sy... xkesah la..jnj pindah

bukan mudah utk hadapi PJJ ni....it needs such a strong heart, a strong will..trust and good communication and etc.... bg saya bile baru kawen dlm setahun tuh... sy rs tiade masalah dlm marriage... but in a long term...what does marriage mean if u are alone most of the time... ajar anak sorang2...sakit pening sorang2.. makan ng parents lagi...walhal dh kawen nie...walhal parents kite dh serahkan kite pada si suami... so..ape makne marriage itu?

me n hubby mmg dh biase berjarak jauh..dr kami 2nd yr couple...dia di pahang, sy di shah alam..nk dating tuh setahun bley kire dengan jari sebelah tgn jer...tp bile kahwin ni...laen rs nyer... rs need for each other tuh lebih kuat...terus terang...sy x mampu bertahan hidup jauh... jgn slh anggap...sy rs apabila berkahwin, susah senang mst lah bersama suami...itu janji kite apabila bernikah... klo smpi skrng susahkn ibu bapa...kesain ibu bapa kite...


InsyaAllah...sy akan berpindah selepas xmas nnt... 27hb dh bley msk umah sewa...walaupun rs gembira tp nervous tuh masih ade..ye la...1st time dok dekat selepas 7 thn bercinta dn 7 bulan berkahwin.... semuga kehidupan kami kelak akan dipermudahkan...amiin...

official photographer...

Dear Friends... i just want to share my experience with my OP.... are they good? nahhhh! are they professional??? NAHHHH!! are they on time and follow their terms in the Quotation???? NAHHHH!!!

how worst it could be? my previous entry did talk about this.... it is frustrating.... but just let me share the chronology with u....



6. & 7 -may My big day

1 june -Received raw photos – by pos

10 june -Send shortlisted photos for three album

30.june -Received 1st layout nikah and sanding – no berinai layout

1 july- Comment – most photos in the layout is not as per shortlisted

8 july -Received 2nd layout nikah, inai and sanding

18 july -Comment – layout does not place according to the event flow

9 august -Received 3rd layout inai, nikah

10 august -Confirm layout nikah – proceed with editing, comment layout inai and sanding

10. august -Received 3rd layout sanding

12 august -Comment layout sanding – did not make any changes accordingly

13 august -Comment inai layout - did not make changes accordingly

19 august -Received nikah and sanding layout edited

20 august -Confirm nikah edited layout – proceed printing, comment on inai and sanding layout – still did not make any changes accordingly.

22 august -Received inai and sanding layout edited

23 august -Confirm on edited inai – request to change 1 photo only, comment on sanding layout – third time he send me the same un-edited layout to change photos accordingly.

23 august -Received final layout

23 august -Finally shah send me the amended layout – pg 5 – 8. We confirm the edited layout and request to proceed with printing

14 september -Received email from intan with new edited version of nikah, inai and sanding

16 september -Went to MoM office and confirm on the nikah and inai layout – we like faiz edited version. Request intan to edit pg 5-8 sanding album.

19 august -Received edited layout – it does not match with faiz layout – so we requested her to amend more or less like faiz edited version layout.

then amned it...send for printing like 2 weeks then receive our album on the 2 of october.... hmmmmm....

what a long journey to get the album....
it is not like they r part time....they r full time OP!....
i dun know...lain org lain rezeki nye kot...

frustrating....seriously frust tahap gaban!

hye you guys....lame x berblogging.... xtaw nk crite ape n x sempat nk menaip...
but today tergerak hati untuk menulis...berkongsi perasaan kecewa dengan semua... kecewa nye saya!!!!!!!!

alhamdulillah..wedding dh berlalu ng jayanya....alhamdulillah dgn semua yg dikurniaNya.
sama seperti semua ex-B2B...pasti anda semua x sabar nk tgk hasil gambar/video wedding anda... ye la... everything that happen on that day is the best thing ever happen in our life..

this story is sharing purpose..bukan utk mengaibkan cameraman nie or others...setiap vendor ade kebaikan n keburukan...so...here goes my story...

we hired this photographer caused my en hubby fall in love with all the albums they showed during SACC wedding exhibition... seriously...he falls for them and langsung x pikir other options..i was thinking of this cameraman...well..he is soo nice...free lance photographer... but i believe he is good...anyway...hubby is the one who is paying everything...so..ikut je la... price cameraman yg hubby pilih...lebih dr my budget.... but as he is willing to pay..okey la...

well...to book n nego price...yes they are pretty good... they said we can see the raw photos within a week.... album depends on how fast you shortlisted your photo.... that is really good... yes both of us are impressived....

so....as per quotation n emails..... my event will cover 2 days... 3 events (nikah, malam berinai, sanding).. 2 photographer for two days, 2 albums....

nikah n malam berinai...semua okey.... happy =)
sanding.... 1 je photographer dtg.... i was like...errrmmm..where is ur assistant? he said...dia ade urgent...anta parents g umrah... (hmmm....)...umrah....urgent...hmmm..so... dia cover sorg... dia kate dia okey...slalu cover sorang...okey..i trust him..

during the event... he is sooo damn busy.... nk cover pengantin..nk cover event kt luar...lari sana lari sni...smpi i need to make an announcment...looking for the cameraman.... dia kate g tukar bateri...
hmmm....

after event....we ask him..bile bley dpt pic? he said.... 6 weeks dlm elbum...we were like.... WHAT?? i thought dpt gmbr within 3 days.... and a week to siap album... dia ckp ...xla.... okey la....kitorg ikut je..

we were waiting like crazy for raw photos..and dpt 3 weeks later...1 week kitorg shortlisted... and 3 weeks later bru dpt draft layout.... tuh pun lepas i anta email tny the progress...agaknye klo i syp je....mst dia syp jugak..

and finally...tengok layout.... OMG...nape mcm nie.... gmbr yg we all shortlisted xde dlm layout.... and the layotu design... kecik kecik..i thought we had discuss that we want big photos...xde la org tgk gbr kitorg pakai kanta kn..... so kecewa la...

dh la lambat....pastuh layout x seperti dijanji kan.. pastuh dh la gmbr on the mjls sanding byk r moment yg missing..ye r...sorg je kn....mane la dia nk lari sana sini...

so...we complain regarding xde assistant....they replace it with an album.... okey la...3 album...
but...layout yg dpt last friday...2 layouts je.... padahal the deisgner said.... 1 album nikah, 1 album mlm berinai, 1 albim sanding...tp end up.... 2 layout...1 nikah+ malam berinai , 2. sanding.

the photos x cantik as usual... i pun xtaw nape...

maybe sebab majlis i kt umah je... x kt hotel or grand hall, pastuh mjls i sempoi je..xlah grand mcm artis2 yg selalu dia ambil tuh.... i pun x fhm nape dia mcm diskriminate.... i tgk org lain nye photos..... 3 hari je dh kuar kt facebook.... dh kuar kt blog...dh siap edit pun!!! we all nye..mcm di sisihkn.... bukan nye kitorg leceh byr... dia mntk arini..kitorg byr arini, mntk je byr... tp mcm ni they treat us... so disciminate!!!!

maybe if you all nye wedding grand, held at hotel or grand hall...then you all bley hired mereka..if you all ni mcm ala2 artis...you all bley hired dia... but if you all kt umah cikai2 cm i..xyah la... better amek yg laen... i x sbut sape dorg...tp cukuplah i bgtau dorg mmg famous..byk artis hired dorg.... bru2 ni pun cover weddng artis.... immediately upload to fb...ye r...dia artis..kite sape.... so... for B2B... please..please choose wisely...jgn pikir hrg mahal keje dorg kualiti.... 
 jgn kecewa macam saya...xde gune dh...

majlis nikah and bersanding

Alhamdulillah..majlis nikah, mlm berinai and bertandang berjalan dengan lancar. terima kasih kepada semua yang hadir n bekerja keras bagi menjayakan majlis tersebut. terima kasih! love you all lots!

to share the moment...here is the photo...taken from my frens...(OP nye gambar blum siap lagi )

here some info to share:

nikah n malam berinai : make up by anis finese touch ( sgt puas hati, make up sgt teliti, sgt cantik!)
make up sanding : lova ( superb!)

thanks to all bloggers on their review regarding the make up artist...your recommendation is truely great! thanks!

3 days to go..

hello u ols....

it;s 3 days to go before my majlis nikah... welll i will update my photo as soon as the majlis berjalan dengan lancar...InsyaAllah....

anyway..today nak crite pasal guest...well... sebagai pihak tuan rumah kite hanya mampu menjemput... kehadiran meraka tidak dipaksa... kalo datang Alhamdulillah..kalo x dtg... x mengapa... bukan nye berdosa besar sekiranya x datang... walaupun ia jemputan seikhlas hati...tp terpulang kepada tetamu...semuga tetamu yg hadir akan datang seikhlas hati, datang dengan doa..agar kami bahagia selamanya. kalo datang terpaksa...datang dengan perasaan x ikhlas... tidak baiklah begitu.. majlis perkahwinan ini majlis yang suci... majlis yang memerlukan keberkatan.. bak kata daddy...wedding is a new chapter of life...so...the 1st day of wedding shall be full with barakah (berkat)... so thats what we are hoping for... insyaAllah.

for those yang terasa or terkecil hati dengan saya... saya mintak maaf... kekdang  i mmg lazer..almaklumlah..xde insuran mulut... hahaha... anyway... i was hoping all my frens will come to make this day a better day...

today last day keje...esok dh start cuti..so here we go.. a long break forr my big day! thank you all!
muacks!

DIY CORSAGE

i really like martha DIY corsage...http://www.marthastewartweddings.com/photogallery/paper-and-fabric-flowers#slide_22

i DIY mine just like martha did but i change the hairband....i just think that small n thin hairband can really hurt ur wrist...so i  bought the big one....  anyway, some i used ribbon...some i used hairband... suke ati la korg nk amek yang mane satu... =)

here goes the methods:

1. you need a ribon ( 1 meter cukup untuk 2 bunga)
2. flower...if you choose small flower... boley la attached 3 - 5 bunge untuk 1 corsage. but i prefer fluffy big flower...so i bough this one at USJ summit..bali shop name nye....
3. glue...glue tembak or gam uhu same je....

okey... mule2 ukur ribon tuh kt tangan..lebih kt sikit so dia bley terurai2 la...(macam dalam gambar)

kemudian.... potong bunge dari tangkainye...jangan potong sampai hujung bunga sangat2..nanti kelopak2 bune semua jatuh... tinggal kn dlm 0.5cm tangkai kt bunge tuh..so senang nak tampal kt ribbon nanti..

pastu...gam kan bunge pada ribbon....
pastu...siap! keringkn.... ms gam...pegang bunge pada ribbon..klo x... dia lari2 nanti..x cantik plak kedudukan bunge tuh nanti...

so...goodluck with that!

p/s: thnks lina for being my model...=)

banner n bunting...

okey frens..... i received my draft banner by true love today...well...it is...ummm...quite not so classic as they promise...  the stars...soooo glamorous.... hmmmm.... let me paste the draft...so u can comment it... anyway... i design mine.... and send it to them to convert it to banner...it should be much more helpful.. i hope...

so this is the design...hmmm...not so pretty and not so classic...

so i came out with this!

much more better rite? simple je... x perlu la berbintang2... over dh tuh... hahahaha...

anyway.... i edit it using picnik....u guys can google it.... =)

hopefully it turn out to be great!

12 days to go

time fly soooo fast.....when i woke up today..i realized it that i only hv this week to do my work... okey boss..the report will be out by this week... no worry.... =)

so i just called my butik.... n surprisingly.... they hv not yet finish up my baju sanding.... OMG.... so scared to death...kalo x siap nk pakai baju ape kn? xkn pakai jeans plak kot.... RARE! haha...

catering baru je kol...okey....now..warna khemah ape.... hijau silver.... is it nice? sumthng like this

i wanna it to be red...but too much red nowdays... furthermore... my theme is sooo warna warni... then i think green will be okey..okey kn?

my bff wedding baru ni pun green..but bright green.... green n white.... so... i gonna change a bit..olive green silver...i think it looks a bit dull..but too much of bright colour is a no no too...so i'm gonna do this!

the things x settle are:
1. kasut sanding
2. corsage utk pompuan yg x siap lg.... bru 11 je siap...9 lg x siap...sebab bunge x cukup... have to buy this flower on Sunday...
3. nk try all the tudung i bought...seriously.... main beli je tanpa test dulu... so..kene test pasni..

tudung n baju nikah

lagi three weeks to go before my big day... things slowly settle down...baju nikah dh beli, baju bertandang dh beli, veil dh beli...only thing yg blum settle are: 1. corsage untuk perempuan n lelaki... (i decided to do different style for women and man) 2. tudung nikah 3. tudung bertandang 4. kasut nikah 5. kasut bertandang lucky i flip thorugh intrend latest magazine and lewre has new collection n i love the white and blue heels! can i grab like three heels? i love the red one toooo.... actually i love heels... lots n lots of heels will make my day! hahahaha... tudung nikah plan nk beli kt bellamar, tu la...agak2nye ade butik tudung lain yg best x? arituh g bellamar...wahhhh..not too expensive and cntk! love it! but i'm looking 4ward to wear turban on my akad day... but who knows how to do turban? kak anis...do you know how to ikat turban? please say you do.... nway...i dh beli baju nikah..blue colour, kain satin... same cm kain baju melayu..i x amik lace as lace makes me look damn fat! so a no no to lace...my baju simple..sgt simple... baju kurung biase, manik2 dr atas ke bawah... later i tnjuk gmbr skit2 k?

best of luck!

this time entry tiade kaitan dgn weddings.... this is for a gudfriend of mine... well.... early morning ni sampai opis as usual la lambat 15 minit... but ade parking kosong belah kete nurul.. excited at first sebab dh lame x dapat parking row depan... but then teringat balik... "owh..nurlina x parking sni"...well actually she had resign... huwaaaa...cedey nye... today obviously boring... sunyi sepi opis.. klo x mesti dh jalan2 borak2 beli bekpes... hahah.. sepanjang kenal nurlina ni..dia::::: 1. happy je... walo keen buli kaw2... dia gelak je... sorry beb... 2. pagi2 mesti ckp... uuuuu..lapo x? jom bekpes... 3. u masak air lebih...nk teh... 4. nk lunch ape eh 5. jom kite diet 6. uuu tolong repair air kopi i... (seyes korg.... air kopi dia hampeh... x rs kopi..baik mnm air masak)... kakakakaka...sorry lina...jgn amek hati.. 7. suke keje unpaid OT.... i hanya teman dia unpaid OT on wednesday... tp main game nye lebey...wt keje nye 10% je... dinner lagi... g guardian lg... mmg x keje la sbnrnye... hahaha 8. ske main game at national geographic.... yes....i pun ske main game tuh dh...semua salah dia 9. banyak scandal yg direka cipta oleh mr. edward or me... hahahaha..klo nk list kn... 4 pages pun x cukup...setiap site ade scandal..ade je org yg jatuh hati ng nurlina nie...kekadang satu site sampai 4 org... hebat giler! 10. HMMMM...suke share food together.... skarang dh xde org nk share ng i... sob sob.... cedey nye... seyes rase kehilangan.... tinggal la i ng nurul kt opis ni yg masih berotak kanak2.... nway u..thanks for the friendship... friendship for ever (ala2 budak skolah nye ayat kn)... keep in touch..skype alwez n best of luck in your future undertkings... =) cepat kahwin ng ri**l**n..... ke ro**a*... kekekekeke.... byk lis scandal..tutup mata pilih je....pilih la yg kaya.,nanti birthday i..i nk beg prada n one set of brush make up of channel.... huhuhuhu... thanks u..u memang baik hati =) gonna miss ya gal! datang la on my wedding day yeh...pakai corsage yg i wt tuh

baju nikah

pre-wed settle.... supposely start at 9am..but en tunang malas bangun pagi..so postpond to 5pm... start exact 5 till 7.30... giler penat... dari sg.ular ke port ke batu gajah ke mane2 ntah lagi... theme jdik..cume i think i may look messy as the tudung is a no! kaen pelekat en epul yg amat keras! cis! abes tegak je tudung aku tuh.... layannn!!

operasi mencari baju nikah bermula sabtu nie! pasti beli! mesti beli! klo x beli mesti kene marah ng en tunang sbb baju dia xleh beli selagi baju sy tidak dibeli... alasan: takut warna x match! adoila... tempat yg akan dituju:

1. PKNS (biase r tuh)

2. Plaza Alam Central

3. SACC (last option!)

4. Seksyen 18 kot....

actually i planned to wear baju kaftan moden..ala2 hatta dolmat and puteh by rizalman punye... tapi...each time i pakai..i look like big fat pumpkin! why pumpkin? i dun know...but that;s wht i thnk..so...back to baju kurung.... the baju jurung i want..must not be all lace.... i want shiffon... soft material that will help me look slim!

to any B2B yg nk nikah...my advice...if u really2 slim/thin...u may pakai full lace...but if u medium size/ chubby like me...lace is a no no...seriusly..i did try one baju lace...it makes me look like a sack of patato...OMG am i that fat? i hate it! if ade mase...go n tempah...berbaloi2.... mcm saya yg kelam kabut nie... nak tmepah xde org nk ambil dh...so..worst case..kene beli siap..alter je la yg mampu... huhuhu...

here is baju kurung yg i like..i saw it at a website of a boutique in utara (kedah or ipoh).... nice one..

nice kn? okey! wish me luck for my baju nikah in searching.... huhuhu.. nway...blue is my theme for nikah... =)

pre-wed and baju nikah

okey you all... so far...semua dh settle... bunge manggar almost done... bunge corsage on the way.. later dh siap i upload photo kay.... weekend ni i;m going to kuantan for my pre-wed photo... hoorrayyy! at last we r having a great pre-wed photo.. theme? classic... me pakai baju kurung kedah with kain batik n selendang for my tudung... i was thinking if i need an umbrella... old classic umbrella... payung kertas mcm tuh la... my en tunang akan pakai baju melayu...kain pelekat di bahu... wah...org kampung abes...it gonna be fun! my biggest problem is.... baju nikah! nyesal x tempah n cari awal2... tuh la..asek busy bnd lain nikah x taw nk pakai pe...kang pakai tshirt n jeans! pengsan mak mertua aku tgk kang! adoila.... weekend ni nk g jejalan kt kntn..hope jumpe la..klo x..kene la beli kain... jahit ... tempah! help! byk nye bnd nk wt... beading lagi.. potong lg..jht lg... vail... kene pki ke... adoi... veil pun x siap lg... cmne nie.... rs nk pengsan!

make up n guestbook update!

hello u olss...

sehatkah ? me... mcm biase je deh..buzyyy giler kay...lg 2 bln je mjls...sgt byk bnd nk wt lg...lg dekat tarikh lg mcm2 otak ku pikir nk wt macam benda... tetibe centrepiece deco pun terbayang di otak... huhuhuhu...

kay gals...ni crite bru sy... as i said yesterday... i wanna book laila to touch up me during the event belah lelaki..but seems like i had to cancel as my future-sister-in-law offer to doll me up! after thinking n discuss with my mommy (penasihat terbaik dunia)... so i agree to accept akak nye offer... plus she make up org enggage kn... so..i thk it is a good option for her to expand her make up skill n at the same time save me some money tooo....=)

seyes save giler...bju pun pki baju nikah je balik..sbb xde mjls sanding..thats y it is simple... just entertain tetamu belah sana...so..all money saved bley gune utk future thngs... mcm g krabi ke... "KRABI HERE I COME!!"...

kay la... yesterday x dpt tdo sgt..so, i continue design n deco my guestbook...it looks amazing! hahaha...msk bakul angkat sendiri okey!! tp of course la kite puas hati ng keje sndri..org laen kate x cntk pun i ckp cantek jugak! peduli hape aku!

here is the front page... (amek gmbr front page je sbb dlm x siap lg 100%)

owh...remember bout that charcoal n black saseme cake.. ni gmbr dia... bru dpt upload..

my new MUA for nikah

i already booked someone for my nikah n mlm berinai MUA...she has a touch almost like aida... aida do recommend me on someone...aida glamor...but... hati x tergerak nk hired her... so...i google2... n i tny my best buddies who will get married in april... she suggest me to try google anis finest touch... so...thats it! i booked her... she gave me a nice price... i nego kaw2 maaaa.... from 900 to 800... okey la kn..at least 50 ringgit more expensive then my budget... anyway... i hope to get a chance to be touched by aida jasmeen make up. best of luck to u aida! so.. here is my problem.... majlis sebelah lelaki... nk pakai baju ape? sape nk make up? cameraman? preps sebelah sna cmne... huhuhuhu... byk nye soklan.. i pun lupe la u ols..nk tny khabar org sblh sna cmne... yg en tunang gtau sy ialah... mak dh booked khemah! good! n then..others? xtaw.... so... i google la make up n butik kt sna... not bad.... hrg of course much more cheaper compared to kl price la kn.... make up artist pun 250 utk sanding... seyes murah... so..i berkenan ng tukang mk up nie..laila name dia... i already book her (tp x byr lg)... hahahaha.... nxt week ye laila... from the link..i see her touch is natural...cntk jgk... tp rs bersalah jugak kat my kak ipar..dia nk make up kn... but me takut la... nanti dia kelam kabut nk urus rumah n make up at the same time.. kesian plak.. baik dia dok umah mak..tolong mak..n let the make up people uruskn i... btol x? ala... rs bersalah jugak pun ade...xpe2...nxt time ye kak... huhuh... here is laila make up link...in case ade org nk cr any1 in temerloh... http://lailatouch-up.blogspot.com so.... belah sna... rumah tumpang is rumah akak at temerloh...jp2... dr kl..kite smpi temerloh dlu ke smpi jengka dlu...bukan smpi jengka dlu ke...huhuhuhuh....ntah la..layan je la... hehehehe jnj ade tmpt utk rehat n siap2... make up sy pun dok temerloh je....so senang n murah jgk.... n still good make up dia... baju...yes! baju is the main problem!!!! nk pakai baju ape cik abg syg oi.... en tunang sy kate...pakai bju nikah je... sbb baju nikah beli mhl2...then pki sekejap je utk mjls nikah..so... kite pki blk at mjls kawen...lgpun.. kite xde sanding kt sna...dtg trus mkn... itulah kate2 en tunang sy.... sy nk pki baju lain jgk.... huuhuuh tgk la cmne.... nk survey2 jp..mane taw...jumpe baju murah n cantek ke...bley la bwk g sna kn? huhuhu....worst case is...pakai bju nikah... hurmmmmppp.... pandapat u ols?

charcoal cake!

amacam..u ol penah dgr the word charcoal? well, in scince (std 5) charcoal is kayu arang which is renewable... ye la kn... mane kayu akn abes.... mcm tuh la penerangan yg i beri kt student i dlu... amazingly, at USJ 10, kedai kek berry...dia ade wt charcoal cake.... as me n my fren, nurlina** (bukan name sebenar).... ske try sumthng wierd,...so we bought two type of cakes... 1) charcoal cake 2) black sesame cake -what la name kek cmni wey... actually lina** (bukan name boss di opis ye)... nk beli cake green tea..last2 abes so dia bedal je la cake black sesame nie... layaannn... pas beli..balik opis...semangat amek sudu...then buka kotak kek..n ape lagi..lina yg rasmikn... dia mkn.... "hmmm.. x rase pape pun im".... mane la i taw kn u ol...sbb i xmkn lg kek tuh..so..ngn berani gagah berpaksa me pun potong kek tuh suku n telan.... hmmm... rs kosong je... x mcm charcoal pun.... haiyyaaahhh la... mcm la before ni i penah mkn charcoal kn...adoilaaa cik im.... lina pun x penah mkn charcoal...so..cmne nk taw rs charcoal sebenarnye.... mayb cik lina kene g jimah jilat skit coal kt atas conveyer tuh...or kt ash pond... bley beza kn coal yg fresh from the ship and fresh from the oven... kekekeekekek... nway...it's a good thing.... lina** (ni name kawan i tuh)... jom kite try roti yg gune dakwat sotong tuh nk? huhuhuhuhuhu.... owh..pic xleh send la...ngok la laptop nie... huhuhuhu.... next time i update how the cake looks.... see ya... muacks!

another sad storu of my MUA

i am so stress...n upset too... kenape asek upset je mggu nie... my MUA - aida jasmeen is not available.. so sad...i love her job... not to heavy make up..yet sweet.... hurmmm... kecewa nye...

so.... i pun kene rush jugak... xtaw nk mintak sape make up kn i... i really want to lova make i jugak...but mahal thp gaban kot... sooo...lupe kn... arghh... help help..sape bley make up kn i nie...

nway to aida: hope we can work together someday... =)

owh... here is just a photo to share with you my DIY guestbook

vission greetings card

OMG u ols... i am so upset with their services, they say it only takes 4 weeks to deliver... 1 week for draft confirmation and three weeks for printing. i booked the card on 23.jan.2011, the worker (zu is her name) said by one week your draft will be ready...so i called her since thursday to friday n saturday...no one pick up the phone... so we went there to see if we r lucky..but sadly...they r closed... they had an early CNY holiday i guess... but the gal should let us know earlier rite.... so... i called her back after raya cine... on 11 February 2011... i made an appointment to meet her on saturday n she said...yes... do come as i;m working on the draft.... so me alone went there rushing on saturday... n u know wht...it is so dissapointing that they r closed again! when i called and ask... they give a reason " eveyone involved with the wedding exhibition at sacc mall so can u come on monday?"...i was pissed off and i said...do u know that u r 3 weeks late! she just laugh and said.... akak datang la isnin ye... senang kn ayat dorg... bg sy..they take their customer for granted... i rs cm nk tampar sekor2 je... should i just write and email n complaint to the hq? i am waiting for their call.. klo by thursday dia x call..i will call on friday... and that's it! they better cover their ass well... i am so upset with this kind of company... we r your customer.. treat us rite la... ni main take things easy... we are catching time... by march i need to rite guest name... by april dh kene invite... i am so marah nie.... n if they did not keep their words of delivery it on time..i will not pay the baki of 400.. bior u kene potong gaji! to all my frens... i will not suggest all of you to tempah your kad here... they r sooo useless...

diy guestbook...

hello u ols.... skrng dh lega la... macam2 dah settle... kad kawen draft je x settle lagi... orang tuh janji 1 week.,.. tp oleh sebab 1 week tuh jatuh pada raya cina... so kene tunggu another week... 2 weeks la jadi nye... tp dia tetap janji delivery kad pada waktunye.... klo x... pasti sy dh mintak diskaun lagi.... woot woot... anyway..thanks to my kazen yg sudi mengsponsor half kek kawen sy.. jimat 50% kn... huhuhu,,, ni nk share pasal guestbook... pada mulanya nk wt guestbook dgn kamerakahwin.,.. as they will do our pre-wed... but...as usuall..last minute... pre-wed x jadi pun..so..xde la guestbook idaman sy... tp sy ni jenis keras kepala kn... so...sy DIY guestbook... saya beli buku skrap yg sempoi... yg not too big...not to small.... then hias cntk2.... yg penting muke depan mst ade riben... nanti i upload photo ye... banyak gk photo nk di upload nie...=) every page pun sy hias... supaya nampak ceria.. senang je cr nk hias.... g beli wrapping paper yg cantik2..then potong2...then tampal mengikut kekreatifan masing2... klo nk gmbr sendiri pun best jgk.... now kene fikir nk deco guestbook conner plak... plan nk letak guestbook conner bersama2 gift conner... owh..did i tell u olls that our banner pun jadi guestbook conner...so..guest can sign on the banner... as the banner is not so big n limited spaces...so...i diy guestbook lagi... ops..sorry la ayat cm ae nie... k la..adios..working time.. counting days!!!

a note utk en tunang ver 2

okey la... arituh pas dh post bru perasan yg saya tak cerite pun pasal catering..marah sgt pasal kedai cawan tuh terus lupa... so kali ni saya nk inform yg saya booked ikhlas catering for my wedding... kak hasni sgt baik hati, sgt boley bertolak ansur, sgt bagus in PR, sgt best..so..pas dia dtg umah utk food testing, mommy terus book... wahh best kn... thn ni dia start nk reka pelamin.. so for those yg nk jimat bley choose kak hasni ikhlas catering... they ol fames dengan arca buah.... nyum nyum.. one thing bagus bout kak hasni ni is dia klo x reti masak lauk tuh..dia ckp tak.. contoh nye sy mintak dia masak ayam masala... dia kate dia x reti msk..tkt ayam x sedap... then i mntk dia tukar dalca to acar rampai..dia ckp..dia pnh cube tapi x sdap... nnt x best plak... so..sangat jujur kn?

ni nak crite pasal note untuk en tunang sy... hummm... sy tak taw la nk ckp pe... tp check it out...

so ini la note yg en tunang sy dpt... kemain bangga dia ade secret admire... huh! xpe..pasni kete kacak kamu jd milik sy... so.... jgn hrp nk dpt XOXOXO dr budak bju putih lg... hehehe

love ya b =)

catering n goodies

hellow u ols... yesterday sy cuti... cuti semata2 nk g nilai 3... coz org kate nilai 3 murah pada hari biase... entahla...cawan yg di aim..same je harga... jadi ia amat mengecewakan actually.. malah kakak yang layan saya tuh amat la kureng asam... om gosh.... i hate her a lot...

so... pagi2 tuh sy dh smpi kt depan kedai ni... Bagus setempat is the name... seriously tak bagus..pekerja sgt rude... xde muke senyum pun... sgt bongkak n even promosi pun sgt buduh...i was asking regarding this mug... rm1.50 each... expected will get cheaper like rm1.00 if i buy 1200 pcs... tp u ol nk tau ape dia nye pekerja ckp? " klo adik beli 1 hrg dia rm1.50, tp skrng ade promosi beli 6 rm9"... so i cakap la.. " memang la kak, satu 1.50, 6 mestilah rm9..semua org reti kire..bagi la murah lagi"... n u ol know ape kakak tuh ckp... kak tuh ckp dgn nada yg sgt rude " INI PROMOSI DIA! KLO ADIK AMEK SERIBU, TIGA RIBU, SEPULOH RIBU PUN NIE LA HARGA DIA!"... I WAS PIST OF! RS CM NK TUMBUK JE MUKE KAKAK TUH...

so before i tumbuk dia..i chow n i ckp kuat2... org bodoh pun reti kire rm1.50 klo beli 6 rm9..tuh bukan promosi! STUPID!"

so..i g deko kk..n i met this kakak ros..sgt baik k..n sgt polite..PR welldone! trus i amek dia... walo hrg rm1.50 i x mntk kurang pun..sbb tuh mmg budget i...

to u ol..sila jgn pegi kt kedai bagus tuh... pekerja dia sgt rude... semua rude... owh one more thng... my mommy tny la pasal paper beg utk letak mug i... 10 rm7.90... mommy tny la..x dpt ke lg murah..sy nk beli byk..dia kate (kakak laen taw)... rm7.50 klo makcik amek 1000 pcs... klo makcik nk murah lagi... amek la yg fesyen lame tuh... rm3.50...dh xde sape nk pakai paper bag tuh..mak cik beli la... pastuh dia blah angkat kaki... kurang ajar kn?

jp2...i nk try attached gmbr kedai bagus tuh..kedai tuh sebaris ng vrstar n kk deco...

http://www.nilai-3.com/Nilai3-shops/Wedding-Pengantin-Accessories-Bagus-Setempat-Sdn-Bhd.html

i believe ni gmbr lame... skrng kt atas dia atas sign board beso...n kedai dia kt tgh2 dh... later i upload gmbr i snap smlm! so..remember..dun beli dr kedai nie..

wedding card... booked!

at last... my wedding card prob solve... all the worriness n 'pening'ness done! so my en tunang deco /edit /design the card himself...congrates! even x dpt hardcover card as promise by en tunang..but i like this card..simple yet elegance.. 3 fold card, 6' x 6', black n grey colour.. we order it at sekyen 7 behind KFC, beside borra restaurant, true love is the name. we did survey kad lestari n anggerik mall... OMG.. they are sooooo expensive there... simple poskad style pun rm0.80.. plaza alam central shah alam... damn expensive too.. i think it is their rental which caused them to be expensive... all above rm1.00... saya tak sempat g kanda dinda at puchong je..sebab dorang tutup on sunday... so.. g je kt true love ni...n berkenan ng 1 kad nie..then ubah2 sikit... then settle... abes crite... =) sebulan siap... hoorrraayy... ramai yg suggest g lh creative at pudu... i noe they r cheaper..klo kad kitorg mayb bley dpt 70sen or 65 sen...but... en tunang sy tak suke g tempat sesak n jam camtuh..so..kitorg tempah semua kt shah alam..dia kate..untuk kesenangan saya jua... =) nway... it;s a great date... see u next month... miss u a lot..

a note utk en tunang ku..

at least i can take a deep breath now..things slowly settle down... bit by bit everthing goes in place... thou this is not i want...but i know all i want is to get married with en tunang saya... =) lately ni i've been sooo busy...with everything need to settle... n lots of idea from other side which bother me a lot! so many things to do..yet i feel so short of time... eventhou i have 3 months to go.. 90 days should be enough to settle everything... people said..selagi x kawen..selagi tuh la ade je benda nk buat.. i guess their statement is true.. so..as time n lot of things-to-do bother me a lot... i easily feel moody... n i notice that i alwez lepas all my moody things to you... i am sorry... i am really really sorry.. i never meant to do any of that.. i noe it upset you..but u never show... u just keep on making me feel relief n i alwez turn up to be quiet...n i noe u hate it when i just keep quite... owh..i feel worst! i noe i am soo stuborn, so fussy, so wants everything to-be-perfect, so kuat mrajuk n so on... seriously, i am sorry... i noe its my bad... owh..other thing is... i never request for all those expensive rings n pendants... i was just telling you that "i saw this ring cost 17k"..but i dun want it... we already promise to buy everything within our budget... so..lets stick with that.. okey b? thank you so much for your patient, thank you for your understanding n thank you for your never ending love... i am sooo lucky to have you in my life... anyway, i feel a bit sad to be far with you again...i hope i will get a job there soon right after our wedding so i can be there with you.. =) take care when you are there... dun noty2 kay...dun let other pompuan goda2 u kay? seems like i have to finish eveything by my own now... love ya alwez hubby... XOXOXOXO (jiwang mode dh) =)

make up for my nikah

hurrrayyyy..akhirnye..i found the make up i wanna look like on my solemnization day... baju confirm pki jubah... make up..i nk sebijik cm dlm mag pengantin tuh..but i xtaw la seswai ke x..kos muke i x cerah..n xla flawless as the model..but i hope ala2 pun jd la... the make up is more natural look..no heavy blusher...no heavy eye shadow... eyelashes yg heavy... hehehe... soft pink lipstick... i really like it... owh..my face wt hal plak..i hate it... sabar2... urghhhhh!! utk majlis nikah..theme will be tiffany blue... rs cm cute je blue.. i never like blue..but tiffany blue.. it caught my eyes...so...my jubah in tiffany blue.. tudung i igt nk ala2 blue jgk.. ke putih? tudung i wanna do turban style... i heart turban tudung...sgt cantek okey... perghh... i did try to ikat it myself..tp x ckp pnjg selendang..any idea how long the kain needed? pening plak tetibe... i need to give my self a treat so i could get a nice face..my fren introduce tidact...nk g cr kt farmasi la nnt... semuga semua berjalan lancar.. =)

make up artist ku..

this is the best part! i've book my make up artist... ye la... for all this while i thought my en tunang will sponsor my dream baju at fidz collection... the package come with fiza zainuddin... so.. i x amek port la nk book MUA.... but then last minute decided to change the wedding dress... n it cause me to kelam kabut cari MUA.. luckily... i found lots of B2B blogs that recommend lots of MUA... so mengikut budget yg i ade... i choose lova... i dh book pun today... kak lova cm sgt busy je... i kene call her a lot of time n remind her my date... worry pun ade jgk..but doa je la eveything will goes fine... insyaAllah.. i planned to hire sue cantik...but..not enough budget la...but okey la..i tgk lova make up pn sgt cantik...so... orait... let see the last result cmne..k? hopefully okey la... MUA is my main concern...i have a very sensitive skin... not all make up can suit my skin..plus my skin condition is not so good... so.. hopefully she can doll me up..make over me... i wanna look great! =)

barang hantaran

Alhamdulillah..barang hantaran semua dh siap beli..en tunang je blum abes beli... agak cerewet orang nye... kekekekeke... i pule mmg la cerewet kn... name pun pompuan... takkan la pompuan jenis x kesah la... so... barang2 hantaran untuk i semua dh settle... well...some people still wants to keep it tradition... meaning buy the hantaran for women and vise versa... but for us..barang u kn..so...u beli la sendiri... u nk hrg 1000 pun... tuh duet u... so..me x kesah...mcm tuh la... thats y en tunang x kesah sy beli ape skali pun... tp yg penting ikut bajet.. jangan kerana nk tunjuk brg kite branded abes x mkn 3 bln..gj abes byr credit card... hehehehe..sy pun gune credit card..but limit la... x semua beli gune magic card..(^__^). anyway.. skrng dh stop gune crdt card... sebab..it's time to settle your credit...chaiyok!!! owh..back to the topic... brg hntrn kami 11 balas 13.. byk kn..even my future-to be- sister in law pun terkejut.. but then mother in law kate..bior la..nk bg smpi berpuloh2 pun bior la... hehehehehe... so.. we r so happy... =) lega nye barang hantaran dh settle... more things to do... less than 4 months to go... =) chaiyok!! gambatte!!

things that has not yet settle

1. catering.. xtaw la mommy nie... 2. goodies... saya xtaw nak bg ape.. 3. kad kahwin...OMG..kate nak tempah kt bandung..ntah ye ntah tidak en tunang nie.. kang tempah kt plaza alam sentral je kang... 4. make up artist... who should i choose nie... lova..ke sue cantek ke liza ass saidatulnisa... adoi... compuse abes nie.. ni la antara bende penting yg amat merisaukan saya... huhuhuhu

wedding dress and shoes..

so...i've booked my wedding dress with chantek boutique... memang cantek boutique dorg... kak siti tuh pun amat la best... ala2 mcm i...suke bercakap je..tuh yg jth hati terus... tp the best thing is... they are making a new wedding dress..ala2 umi aida yg i nk tuh... with rent price of 1k... murah la kn..selame ni i g..klo baju bru je..mesti 1.5k up to 3.5k... rent je..bukan beli... tp klo beli..x dpt la 3.5k... semua up to 5k... ni yg i dh survey la.. hatta dolmat yg wt baju elyana tuh.. minimum price 5k... pergh..klo la i kaya... mst i dh tempah dh... berangan la cik im...

so...malam berinai i akan pakai warna maroon... songket baru jugak =) sanding i pakai warna off white silver... suci skit kn... even my early plan is to wear red.. but akak siti tuh ckp...they r not sure of red..so..i kate... putih pun cantek jgk... the problem is this...

i okey je baju wrn puteh...but... my fav colour is red... so.. i was thinking of puting some sense of red into my wedding dress... i mean.. my wedding shoe... klo warna merah.. memang semua org nampak warna shoe i yg g;ampur tuh la kn.. so cmne... boley x saya nk pakai kasut merah... macam rare..tp fantastic!!! i love red alot.. a lot n alot... red is hot!! okey la... here some sample of the shoe.. as usual..gambar curi dr MOM... http://www.ministryofmoment.com/

as they are the official photographer for umie aida.. n me.. hahahaha... later story pasal MOM plak..i love umie;s shoe...

so..this is the shoes i'm looking for... peep toe... sexy! muacks!

fesyen tudung

as baju dh settle..i rs sgt la relief... but then... tudung... tudung nikah ape i nk pakai nie..baju nikah beli siap...so..mst tudung pun beli siap..lucky who tempah..coz bley tempah for tudung sekali..but me... i pening la.. i dun like the tudung with auning (cmni kah eja)... my face nampak cm buah kelapa dh...bulat abes... lg pun en tunang kate..tudung tuh membuatkn saya kelihatan seperti bibik... adush la... skrng nie mcm trend tudung syria tuh kn..ala2 melekap kt kepala... i found this tudung at website seindah wajah... mcm cantek je.. berkenan abes i... ala2 tudung kuar magazine pengatin kuaran jan 2011... santek.. i like... but tuh la... kt ne ade jual tudung cmni...

cantek kn? ke sebab model tuh dh cantek..so pakai ape pun cantek? pening gk la... harap2 tudung yg boutique tuh wt best la.. tp kak siti tuh sangat baik..so..any comment is welcome... so..klo x berkenan ng tudung tuh bley la ngomel2 kn... share idea.. sharing kn caring... =)

any idea for my tudung during the solemnization? tudung shawl mayb? or... tudung syria ni pun comel kn? pening la..kene start berjalan2 mencari tudung... tp... baju nikah pun x beli lg..nk beli tudung amende nye...adoila...