breastfeeding and baby

just wanna share on breastfeeding... i know there is a lot of info in the internet...but i hope this help too...

for those working mother who is trying and aim to exclusive breastfeed~

it is not easy..yes it is not... a few issue will raise when your baby is fully breastfeed...

1. your baby may refuse bottle

yes...it happen to my baby...no bottle... i did tried to teach her 2 weeks before i start working..but....on the day itself..she refuse it..aiyrakk..mau pengsan dia nanges tak mahu botol... nanges macam kene dera hokey... yang paling best..baru tunjuk botol dah jerit..belum sumbat puting botol... sampai kami cover botol tuh dengan handkerchief pun dia jerit jugak...

solution:

talk to her paed and she recommend NUK teats... saiz 1, saiz s (for breastmilk). alhamdulillah she wants it....

macam ni la rupe puting tuh...



2. how do u keep the pumped milk??

ni doc yang ajar la...

a) pump --> letak tempat chiller (ruang sejuk biasa) untuk 2-3 hours --> alihkan kat tempat frozen...

kat tempat chiller susu tahan 5 hari

kat tempat freezer susu tahan 3 bulan

b) susu yang frozen --> letak kat tempat chiller sampai cair --> suam kan bile nak susu kn kat baby

susu kat chiller tahan 3-5 hari (better 3 hari as kite tak tau how is the bacteria condition in it)

susu disuamkan mesti di habiskan dalam tempoh 1 jam...

or else...kene buang.... =(

3. baby's poop...

for baby 1 month - she shall poop as much as possible as she is cleaning her tummy...

for baby 2 months plus - she will face a few days without poop... not to worry..give her up to 8 days... if not poop juga..then see the doc!!!

if your baby is:

-crying

-meneran

-perut keras

-kentut smelly like crazy

-vomit after feed

please see the doc!! doc will put somthing in the ass and let her poop! so please...refer doc!

dining set =)

hye u ols...

hari ni last day kerja... esok dah start cuti...well..kemaman kn...memang la cuti esok... esok kami nak g selesaikan hal-hal rumah... sabtu balik kampung, ahad balik bandar... =)

selain dari lampu, langsir etc.... perabot pun penting jua....
pemilihan perabot mestilah bersesuaian dengan konsep rumah... modern ke, minimalis modern ke, ethnic ke, english ke... macam-macam la konsep rumah....
dah pilih konsep pilih warna pulak.... my ID kate tahun ni ramai suke warna moden... hitam, grey n white... a cool combination....
as for my house....kami dah beli perabot sikit-sikit...dari awal-awal kawin dah beli... setiap kali pindah bawak la semua barang yang dah dibeli...*macam banyak kali pindah je*

sofa...hubby dah beli awal-awal... warna hitam - modern design...
bedroom set plak warna putih -modern design jugak...
so..... modern design la rumah kami....

esok kami nak cari dining table impian saya...well... sekarang trend dining set ala2 bench type dining table taw... so cool...i'm in love with it....

something like this...best kan...

so...kami pun mencari la yang ala2 mcm nie....

we didi a survey at courts, lorenzo, cavenzi n akhirnye at casarano...survey nye survey..bincang nye bincang... we decided to choose....rahsia.... tunggu dah booking baru bley crite...kang crite sekali tuh tak jadi...sia sia je...

nanti i upload photo meja bile dah sampai hokey... =)

lampu rumah - done!

hey u ols....

untuk lampu n kipas rumah...after diskus n confirm brape biji  n concept lampu...kami pun g survey... tak sangka jugak yang kuantan ni banyak juga kedai lampu.... kami survey 3 kedai :
1. kedai lampu philips kat tepi manjaku belakang ECM
2. Top Lighting - ramai recommend sini - design cantik, harga ok la..not bad...
3. LA lighting - tak sebesar kedai Top Lghting - harga best!

kami beli kt LA lighting - lagi pun time tuh dia tengah sale - semua lampu 50% off.... untung seh...jadi kami balun la lampu2 yg 50% off tuh... kami tak suke lampu2 kristal... kami beli lampu yang senang mentol diganti.... baru la senang keje...tak de la nanti lampu mati terkial-kial nak tukar lampu... hehehe

anyway...nanti dah siap pasang lampu baru saya update photo k....
owh..yang paling best...lampu bilik-bilik boley jadi lampu putih yang terang dan lampu kuning yang malap sebagai lampu tido... jimat tak yah beli lampu tido! =)

home sweet home

back to our discussion.... settle loan? settle kwsp? ada duit dh??
orait...time to shop! but wait...have u plan? yesss..... before buying anything.... u need to plan...

here is the checklist i've made before shortlisting items need to be bought:

1. wiring and plumbing : your house sure has socket and switch but is it enough? u have to remember that u need extra socket for aircond, washing machine, fridge, oven, etc. u also need extra switch for hp lampu tido... hokey? so - count and listed no of socket and switch u wish to have. it is adviseable that u add on extra socket such as aircond in the living room and other rooms - who knows in the future u might add more aircond... so no need to do another round of wiring coz u already have one!

2. grill and tinted....most of the grill supplier prefer for u to do your tinted prior grill install.. especially when u are installing double layer tinted - inside and outside.... so after tinted...do the grill... for grill - survey and survey...don;t just berkenan hired and at the end u have to pay a lot of money.... requested a few grill supplier to come and ukur your house and ask for quotation! quotation is totally free! ask for it...compare.... and ask the type, the thickness, the toughness of the grill... don't percaya bulat2... go and goole how true it is... okey?

3. bulb and fan - okey.... time to list the bulb and fan - nos and type... list is out and survey... there are thousands of lighting shop.... go and survey.... ask people around do they know any shop recommended? cheap and good quality.... survey... don;t choose a bulb and a fan based on their cantikness... be practical.... the bulb must play it roles... same goes to the fan... dont buy fancy fan..but angin.... haprak! so.... choose wisely....

4. curtains!!! - my favourite  - i always love curtains - my suggestion - go for kamdar or jakel or nagoya - they jahit and install the curtain for u..they even come to your house and ukur... so.... u save a lot there... wait for their sale...and walaaaa.... go and book for it... my mom spend 1.5k for one new house curtains and rails at jakel.... 50-70% off maaa..... walaaaa....

5. kitchen - i love kitchen ala2 top chef...hahahaha.... berangan sajok!.... welll kitchen need to be practical too...dont built such a big huge kitchen in your small kitchen area...pity la the kitchen area.... so... make sure u measure everything...choose the one that u love but practical.... why must it be ur choice...bcoz we r the one (mommies) who will spend most of time in the kitchen...so..make sure u choose the kitchen...baru ada semangat nak masak..hahaha! owh....and ikut budget...if your budget around 6k...dont la survey kitchen price 15k... hokey?

6. paint - paint your house! it is better for u to paint your house first before u move in...it is much comfortable that way..rather than u have to cover all your furniture and then paint and clean up the mess again! so... paint it first.... well... nowdays - wall paper is back... so... either paint or wallpaper - up to you..ikut budget maaa.... paint is cheaper then wallpaper...but wallpaper looks great then paint! up to you!

7. furniture - okey...time for shops! buy improtant things first - such as sofa set, bedroom set, dining table etc... bunga2...flower pot, frame, fancy watch, mirror and such.... later! once u move in.... settle down..relax... then only u decorate!

okey...i hope it helps.... i am still shortlisting on the no. of bulb and fan and socket and switch.... aiyarrkkk..so pening already! will update photos and supplier later!

rezeki

orang kata bila kahwin akan bertambah rezeki, bila ada anak ..anak itu pembawa rezeki... benar orang kata... alhamdulillah...sejak mengandung kn khayra..ada je rezeki Allah nak bagi....
abes je pantang... hubby beli kereta baru....alhamdulillah...kereta 4 pintu idaman saya =) mommy n baby dok belakang with the carseat.... daddy drive sorang2 kt depan... hehehe... saya suke bonet kereta itu...beso! seswai ng stroller khayra yg beso jugak...huhuhu...muat semua barang nak masuk - tp kene pandai susun la...kalo x reti susun....treler pun tak cukup nak letak barang baby... hahahaha...

sekarang rezeki baru lagi... we bought a house....at berserah kuantan.... even not in KL...but bersyukur sangat ada rezeki beli rumah sendiri...tak payah menyewa susah2... kalo dapat tuan rumah ok...ok la...kalo dapat tuan rumah takut bini...abes la....

kami ni first time la beli rumah kan.... so... banyak benda yang kene belajar... so...i am sharing my experience of buying a house...semoga anda semua dapat beli umah idaman anda:

mula2 g la survey nak rumah mana.... pilih la ikut budget... klo mampu beli umah 200k..beli yg 200k...kalo lebih, lebih la... nak bayar bulan2 tuh yg perit tuh....
-tengok rumah tuh nye tenue... 99 years ke..or freehold... i prefer freehold...
-tengok rezab melayu ke or bebas...
-developer yang kaya raya ni biase nye dia tanggung S&P and Legal Fees...
part ni u guys kene alert - legal fees ade 2 ...
1. legal fees between u and bank
2. legal fees S&P
- tengok future plan keliling rumah tuh ape... jangan percaya kalo dia kate "yg ni reserve as greenbelt area" - tengok neighbour sebelah siapa...
- tengok bekas tanah...kalo kelapa sawit...siap2 la ng anai2... kami nye bekas hutan... harap2 okey la... sebelah kanan bakal perumahan, belah kiri bakal ada sekolah...

make sure developer cover semua...termasuk stamping charges... harga stamping ni lagi mahal dari fees taw...so...make sure developer cover...kalo tak cover...make sure they state it clearly how much u have to pay!...hokey?

dah pilih rumah? baguih.... sekarang byr deposit... biasenye developer mintak deposit... tapi kami tak bayar deposit... kami cakap kat developer... boley apply loan dulu tak..if lulus... ok...if not... tak ok la...
so developer bagi apply loan dulu without paying any deposit to them....

kami apply maybank, cimb, RHB bank... kami tengok offer terbaik... cmne nak taw offer terbaik... tengok la minus BLR tuh brape... maknenye interest rendah r... biase range dalam 4.4-4.5% interest... lagi rendah lagi bagus!
then tengok plak tempoh pinjaman... biasanye maximum is 40 years... tapi lagi pendek lagi bagus..sebab kurang bayar interest...hokey?
then tengok monthly installment brape... klo within budget...settle!
lepas dah compare and discuss... we choose RHB bank...sgt bagus r RHB ni...semua bley buatkn...

then g la sign agreement ng bank....
dah sign dengan bank..baru sign S&P ng developer...pastuh S&P ni akan distampingkan oleh lawyer developer... then bawak S&P and loan agreement kat KWSP...kluar kan duet tabung 2 untuk bayar downpayment or untuk sediakan rumah secukupnye...

after this..i will story mory about preparation to start a new house =)