after a long silent

assalammualaikum semua...

hye u ols... lama menyepi kn.... sampai nama blog sendiri pun dah lupa...hahaha...

tetibe rasa nak share macam2 experience...

banyak yang dilalui since jadi working mother ni...sangat mencabar n sangat memerlukan kesabaran yang amat tinggi... lagi-lagi bila anak dah pandai macam-macam...

first of all..nak inform 2nd baby is on the way... jantina...surprise!!! each time scan dia sorok... dia cakap tungggguuuuu....then we just have to wait la...

the problem is...i dont know what colour baju n preparation lain to buy? most of the brands-anankku, pigeon...fiffy..semua jual baju berkaler... pink blue pink blue... adalah yang jumpa purple...grey..dark blue..yellow... hmmm...orang tua2 kata..baby baru lahir jangan pakai baju warna gelap2...tak ceria... kene beli ceria2... tapi MIL pesan..jangan beli warna kuning...so.... akhirnya..saya jumpa baju pigeon warna hijau putih...jadilah...beli la sepasang dulu....

now dah masuk 7th months...alhamdulillah... baru terpikir nak buat list barang baby...nak beli barang berpantang and such...wah.....dulu masuk 6 bulan dah ready...ni 7 bulan baru ada sepasang baju baby je...aiyyarkkk..camne ni... huhuh...kene amik cuti panjang la ni.... cuti straight seminggu...survey n cari semua barang n ready!!

doakan semua dipermudahkn and selamat yeh...

nanti bila list barang dah ready...saya share...mana taw ade kawan2 yang blurr tak tahu nak prepare barang baby kedua camne...-  macam saya... hahaha...

take care...
hugs n kisses...

hobby...

hye u ols..

disamping menjadi ibu separa masa... separa lagi keje... terfikir la nak mencari hobby baru... tak kan la nak mengumpul setem plak..sekarang mana ade hantaran surat pakai pos..sekarang beremail n berwatsapp bagai...

nak kumpul handbag n kasut... tak cukup la duet cek... so... thinking...n thinking...
okey la... nak try baking n sewing... wahhh..sampai dua hobby ko..over sgt...

honestly...i am not good at both baking n sewing... seriously... bab baking... mesti kek or ape je yang dibake tak jadi..bake cookies...keras macam batu... bake kek... alahai kek...nape la ko tak naik fluffy..nape nipis je...bukan nak wt kek gulung pun... hahahaha..

TAPI... mesti semangat!!! teruskn usaha..pasti berjaya...

en. hubby tukang komen yg pedas sentap! klo tak sedap memang tak sedap..kalo keras siap baling kat dinding... adoila...tapi.. saya tak kesah..i will still baking until berjaya... hahahaha...

for baking.... alat2 semua dah ada..oven... mixer... semua ada...tinggal nak mencuba dan terus mencuba...

bab menjahit ni... tengok orang jahit manik la..jahit lace la pada baju...walaweiii..cantik sei...

nampak senang... so kene try la... for the first time..i will do my own lace patch on my dress... nantikan hasilnye...
bahan2 : baju kosong... lace...benang...jarum... ade!
tunggu masa je nak mule... huahuahuahua....
will update soon!! *wish me luck*

review make up: maybeline eyeliner

hye u ols...

today nak share info pasal this maybeline eyeliner i just bought at Guardian...

memang mencari liquid eyeliner yang best.. my cousin bought at sasa cyber colour..it is so nice... but when i went to sasa.... abes dah colour tu..so pegi guardian and this lady promote me this eyeliner...

dia cakap " this is better lo... the eyeliner stays for 36 hours, easy to apply and very nice"... i pun tak tahu why i terus agree.... terus bayar di counter... harga tak ingat la..tapi less then RM40..

the next day, i terus try *eyeliner memang dah abes...tu sebab beli..bukan boros*... hahahaha

hasil nye... hmmmm...not as good as expected... why??
- brush dia tak nipis... so eyeliner jadi tebal..
- apply sekali je tak akan hitam sangat..kene apply 2-3 kali baru betul2 hitam eyeliner tu
- kalau dah apply 2-3 kali mesti nampak eyeliner tuh tebal...
- last for 36 hours??? tipu giler.... it last about 4-6 hours je (with one coating)..
- kalau sapu sampai 2-3 kali..it last la about half day to one day..depands on your sweat n etc..

conclusion:

okey la eyeliner nie..not my fav..i should go and try for cyber colour next time...

this is the bekas and brush... bekas dia kecil je.. besar duit 50 sen je

one coating

atas tuh 3 coating..bawah one coating

this is just my opinion...orang lain may say this is very good...for me...okey la...not so good...

if any of you would like to try...go ahead...dont malu-malu.. tak rugi mencuba..mana taw seswai dengan jiwa anda =)

grill

hye u ols...

saya dah officially pindah rumah baru..alhamdulillah..walaupun sangat kelam kabut tapi sempat jua pindah masuk...thank you to my parents and brothers for helping out... thank you too to hubby's friends yang sudi angkat peti sejuk, washing machine, sofa n set bilik tdo! thank u boss hubby sebab bg lori free...*dah macam ucapan dapat award je*... hehehe

i want to share on my grill... i love it! it came as expected!
simpel design with my choice of colour... as i said...no kerawang2..
abang grill ni recommended by hubby's friend... kalo tak silap nama dia JOE... very nice person...
hasil kerja bagus...kemas...and yg penting ontime as promised! good job!

jom tengok gambar!

this is the sliding door

 ni belum pasang...for 2nd sliding door

 close up view...namapak tak colour dia...nice kan?

this is at my dry kitchen...

finishing work...sgt kemas...highly recomended!

happy 7th months khayra...

today my khayra is 7th months...alhamdulillah..she grows up well everyday..eat well, play well... she learn everyday... it is sooooo cute to watch her learning and noticing anything new that she is capable of doing.... she did not merangkak..but she moves like backward crawling caterpiller ...*does caterpiller crawl???* (^_^)... what ever it is...u r so adorable khayra...sleep well every night...

mommy and daddy love you...

owh...she said her first word...and that is "DADDY"...lovely haaaa....

langsir, grill and wiring....

bila dah dapat rumah...mula la angan2 mak jenin tak abes-abes... nak deco camni la...nak warna ini la..nak letak itu ini sana situ... penuh la imaginasi....tapi.... benda penting must come first.... ape dia?

ni dia: Grill, wiring, langsir....


cite pasal grill dulu...

grill memang plan nak wt simple je...tak de kerawang-kerawang..bukan iron rod...bukan fancy.... bak kate hubby...tujuan buat grill is for safety - so... pikir design yang safety.... kalo ikut kan perasaan haku yang giler nie..nak buat frameless la... belit2 macam ular...tapi bile orang grill cakap..lagi fancy lagi senang pencuri nak kumpil...so..cancel la...buat je la grill macam penjara...tapi.... safety insyaAllah...

ni gril idaman - konon la... frameless!

so rupe grill saya....

nanti saya update bile dah siap...

grill type: besi

colour type: powder coating - tahan lama

colour - grey ala2 sIII

price - 5.2k

why mahal: sebab rumah ade 2 sliding door...then banyak tingkap kecik2 kt atas dekat ng syiling...so... jadi mahal... tapi okey la bile dibanding kan dengan jiran2 lain..ade yang sampai 8k....7k... kire abg ni okey .... En. Halim namanye... hasil kerje dia...tunggu.... nanti saya update...

house update....

hye u ols...
it is such a hetic moment - kunci rumah dh dapat. now...it is time to do the rest :)

first of all...when we got the key...we went to see the house....well..the developer gave us a form - damage complain or something like that...so what u do is...check every single thing.... from floor to doors to windows to wall, from pipe to leakage to kitchen and every single corner - check jangan tak check... jangan bagi muke kat developer nie... jot down every damage - either u think it is a wall crack or a paint crack....wrote it down... as fussy as i am... unevent paint pun i request them to re-paint it... well...customer always right...right?

p/s: to make sure they do the correction at the exact location - put a mark at the damage area - we bought tape and maker pen... mark it!

well....my conclusion is.... their finishing is so worst!!! there are dirt on the walls...n i request them to repaint the whole wall... below photos of the damage - photos below i havent stick the mark...


dirt on the wall



kotor lagi...

 siap ade tapak tangan lg...panggil csi~

crack!

hopefully the developer will do their best in repairing our house - new house maaa...must look pretty lohr...

khayra is 4 months

it is a late post...but i only hace time to update my blog...so...lets share some of khayra's latest photos - she is 8 kg during check up 4.5months.... syukur alhamdulillah..semoga membesar menjadi anak yg sihat dan solehah...

 saya sgt happy



sungguh anak dady



style tdo latest



pakai dress baru

khayra sekarang sangat malas nak meniarap..mentang2 dah terer..dia jadi malas...ape la anak dara nie..

khayra - 3 months

my baby is 3 months old now..alhamdulillah..sihat walafiat...and the best part is...still fully breat feeding... i hope i can breastfeed her until she turns two! InsyaAllah....
 as usual...3 months must get a jab - supposed to do it at DEMC after raya..but daddy had no leave left... so we just done it at kemaman... luckily the doc is paed too... so okey... khayra did not cry...she is tough like mommy!!

the best part during baby jab is - weighing her... i am always nervous to know what is her current weight...

well...guesss what...

khayra is 7 kg.... alhamdulillah.... kussss semangat anak mommy

and...last 2 days.... she woke us up at 4.30 just to show her effort of meniarap..and at 5am...
tadaaaaaa.....

berjaya meniarap... dah meniarap tuh.... dia pun bg award kat diri sendiri...

hisap jari perisa ayam tuh! hahahaha....
new habit for 3 months baby - hisap jari macam makan ayam...

love you khayra!

breastfeeding and baby

just wanna share on breastfeeding... i know there is a lot of info in the internet...but i hope this help too...

for those working mother who is trying and aim to exclusive breastfeed~

it is not easy..yes it is not... a few issue will raise when your baby is fully breastfeed...

1. your baby may refuse bottle

yes...it happen to my baby...no bottle... i did tried to teach her 2 weeks before i start working..but....on the day itself..she refuse it..aiyrakk..mau pengsan dia nanges tak mahu botol... nanges macam kene dera hokey... yang paling best..baru tunjuk botol dah jerit..belum sumbat puting botol... sampai kami cover botol tuh dengan handkerchief pun dia jerit jugak...

solution:

talk to her paed and she recommend NUK teats... saiz 1, saiz s (for breastmilk). alhamdulillah she wants it....

macam ni la rupe puting tuh...



2. how do u keep the pumped milk??

ni doc yang ajar la...

a) pump --> letak tempat chiller (ruang sejuk biasa) untuk 2-3 hours --> alihkan kat tempat frozen...

kat tempat chiller susu tahan 5 hari

kat tempat freezer susu tahan 3 bulan

b) susu yang frozen --> letak kat tempat chiller sampai cair --> suam kan bile nak susu kn kat baby

susu kat chiller tahan 3-5 hari (better 3 hari as kite tak tau how is the bacteria condition in it)

susu disuamkan mesti di habiskan dalam tempoh 1 jam...

or else...kene buang.... =(

3. baby's poop...

for baby 1 month - she shall poop as much as possible as she is cleaning her tummy...

for baby 2 months plus - she will face a few days without poop... not to worry..give her up to 8 days... if not poop juga..then see the doc!!!

if your baby is:

-crying

-meneran

-perut keras

-kentut smelly like crazy

-vomit after feed

please see the doc!! doc will put somthing in the ass and let her poop! so please...refer doc!

dining set =)

hye u ols...

hari ni last day kerja... esok dah start cuti...well..kemaman kn...memang la cuti esok... esok kami nak g selesaikan hal-hal rumah... sabtu balik kampung, ahad balik bandar... =)

selain dari lampu, langsir etc.... perabot pun penting jua....
pemilihan perabot mestilah bersesuaian dengan konsep rumah... modern ke, minimalis modern ke, ethnic ke, english ke... macam-macam la konsep rumah....
dah pilih konsep pilih warna pulak.... my ID kate tahun ni ramai suke warna moden... hitam, grey n white... a cool combination....
as for my house....kami dah beli perabot sikit-sikit...dari awal-awal kawin dah beli... setiap kali pindah bawak la semua barang yang dah dibeli...*macam banyak kali pindah je*

sofa...hubby dah beli awal-awal... warna hitam - modern design...
bedroom set plak warna putih -modern design jugak...
so..... modern design la rumah kami....

esok kami nak cari dining table impian saya...well... sekarang trend dining set ala2 bench type dining table taw... so cool...i'm in love with it....

something like this...best kan...

so...kami pun mencari la yang ala2 mcm nie....

we didi a survey at courts, lorenzo, cavenzi n akhirnye at casarano...survey nye survey..bincang nye bincang... we decided to choose....rahsia.... tunggu dah booking baru bley crite...kang crite sekali tuh tak jadi...sia sia je...

nanti i upload photo meja bile dah sampai hokey... =)

lampu rumah - done!

hey u ols....

untuk lampu n kipas rumah...after diskus n confirm brape biji  n concept lampu...kami pun g survey... tak sangka jugak yang kuantan ni banyak juga kedai lampu.... kami survey 3 kedai :
1. kedai lampu philips kat tepi manjaku belakang ECM
2. Top Lighting - ramai recommend sini - design cantik, harga ok la..not bad...
3. LA lighting - tak sebesar kedai Top Lghting - harga best!

kami beli kt LA lighting - lagi pun time tuh dia tengah sale - semua lampu 50% off.... untung seh...jadi kami balun la lampu2 yg 50% off tuh... kami tak suke lampu2 kristal... kami beli lampu yang senang mentol diganti.... baru la senang keje...tak de la nanti lampu mati terkial-kial nak tukar lampu... hehehe

anyway...nanti dah siap pasang lampu baru saya update photo k....
owh..yang paling best...lampu bilik-bilik boley jadi lampu putih yang terang dan lampu kuning yang malap sebagai lampu tido... jimat tak yah beli lampu tido! =)

home sweet home

back to our discussion.... settle loan? settle kwsp? ada duit dh??
orait...time to shop! but wait...have u plan? yesss..... before buying anything.... u need to plan...

here is the checklist i've made before shortlisting items need to be bought:

1. wiring and plumbing : your house sure has socket and switch but is it enough? u have to remember that u need extra socket for aircond, washing machine, fridge, oven, etc. u also need extra switch for hp lampu tido... hokey? so - count and listed no of socket and switch u wish to have. it is adviseable that u add on extra socket such as aircond in the living room and other rooms - who knows in the future u might add more aircond... so no need to do another round of wiring coz u already have one!

2. grill and tinted....most of the grill supplier prefer for u to do your tinted prior grill install.. especially when u are installing double layer tinted - inside and outside.... so after tinted...do the grill... for grill - survey and survey...don;t just berkenan hired and at the end u have to pay a lot of money.... requested a few grill supplier to come and ukur your house and ask for quotation! quotation is totally free! ask for it...compare.... and ask the type, the thickness, the toughness of the grill... don't percaya bulat2... go and goole how true it is... okey?

3. bulb and fan - okey.... time to list the bulb and fan - nos and type... list is out and survey... there are thousands of lighting shop.... go and survey.... ask people around do they know any shop recommended? cheap and good quality.... survey... don;t choose a bulb and a fan based on their cantikness... be practical.... the bulb must play it roles... same goes to the fan... dont buy fancy fan..but angin.... haprak! so.... choose wisely....

4. curtains!!! - my favourite  - i always love curtains - my suggestion - go for kamdar or jakel or nagoya - they jahit and install the curtain for u..they even come to your house and ukur... so.... u save a lot there... wait for their sale...and walaaaa.... go and book for it... my mom spend 1.5k for one new house curtains and rails at jakel.... 50-70% off maaa..... walaaaa....

5. kitchen - i love kitchen ala2 top chef...hahahaha.... berangan sajok!.... welll kitchen need to be practical too...dont built such a big huge kitchen in your small kitchen area...pity la the kitchen area.... so... make sure u measure everything...choose the one that u love but practical.... why must it be ur choice...bcoz we r the one (mommies) who will spend most of time in the kitchen...so..make sure u choose the kitchen...baru ada semangat nak masak..hahaha! owh....and ikut budget...if your budget around 6k...dont la survey kitchen price 15k... hokey?

6. paint - paint your house! it is better for u to paint your house first before u move in...it is much comfortable that way..rather than u have to cover all your furniture and then paint and clean up the mess again! so... paint it first.... well... nowdays - wall paper is back... so... either paint or wallpaper - up to you..ikut budget maaa.... paint is cheaper then wallpaper...but wallpaper looks great then paint! up to you!

7. furniture - okey...time for shops! buy improtant things first - such as sofa set, bedroom set, dining table etc... bunga2...flower pot, frame, fancy watch, mirror and such.... later! once u move in.... settle down..relax... then only u decorate!

okey...i hope it helps.... i am still shortlisting on the no. of bulb and fan and socket and switch.... aiyarrkkk..so pening already! will update photos and supplier later!

rezeki

orang kata bila kahwin akan bertambah rezeki, bila ada anak ..anak itu pembawa rezeki... benar orang kata... alhamdulillah...sejak mengandung kn khayra..ada je rezeki Allah nak bagi....
abes je pantang... hubby beli kereta baru....alhamdulillah...kereta 4 pintu idaman saya =) mommy n baby dok belakang with the carseat.... daddy drive sorang2 kt depan... hehehe... saya suke bonet kereta itu...beso! seswai ng stroller khayra yg beso jugak...huhuhu...muat semua barang nak masuk - tp kene pandai susun la...kalo x reti susun....treler pun tak cukup nak letak barang baby... hahahaha...

sekarang rezeki baru lagi... we bought a house....at berserah kuantan.... even not in KL...but bersyukur sangat ada rezeki beli rumah sendiri...tak payah menyewa susah2... kalo dapat tuan rumah ok...ok la...kalo dapat tuan rumah takut bini...abes la....

kami ni first time la beli rumah kan.... so... banyak benda yang kene belajar... so...i am sharing my experience of buying a house...semoga anda semua dapat beli umah idaman anda:

mula2 g la survey nak rumah mana.... pilih la ikut budget... klo mampu beli umah 200k..beli yg 200k...kalo lebih, lebih la... nak bayar bulan2 tuh yg perit tuh....
-tengok rumah tuh nye tenue... 99 years ke..or freehold... i prefer freehold...
-tengok rezab melayu ke or bebas...
-developer yang kaya raya ni biase nye dia tanggung S&P and Legal Fees...
part ni u guys kene alert - legal fees ade 2 ...
1. legal fees between u and bank
2. legal fees S&P
- tengok future plan keliling rumah tuh ape... jangan percaya kalo dia kate "yg ni reserve as greenbelt area" - tengok neighbour sebelah siapa...
- tengok bekas tanah...kalo kelapa sawit...siap2 la ng anai2... kami nye bekas hutan... harap2 okey la... sebelah kanan bakal perumahan, belah kiri bakal ada sekolah...

make sure developer cover semua...termasuk stamping charges... harga stamping ni lagi mahal dari fees taw...so...make sure developer cover...kalo tak cover...make sure they state it clearly how much u have to pay!...hokey?

dah pilih rumah? baguih.... sekarang byr deposit... biasenye developer mintak deposit... tapi kami tak bayar deposit... kami cakap kat developer... boley apply loan dulu tak..if lulus... ok...if not... tak ok la...
so developer bagi apply loan dulu without paying any deposit to them....

kami apply maybank, cimb, RHB bank... kami tengok offer terbaik... cmne nak taw offer terbaik... tengok la minus BLR tuh brape... maknenye interest rendah r... biase range dalam 4.4-4.5% interest... lagi rendah lagi bagus!
then tengok plak tempoh pinjaman... biasanye maximum is 40 years... tapi lagi pendek lagi bagus..sebab kurang bayar interest...hokey?
then tengok monthly installment brape... klo within budget...settle!
lepas dah compare and discuss... we choose RHB bank...sgt bagus r RHB ni...semua bley buatkn...

then g la sign agreement ng bank....
dah sign dengan bank..baru sign S&P ng developer...pastuh S&P ni akan distampingkan oleh lawyer developer... then bawak S&P and loan agreement kat KWSP...kluar kan duet tabung 2 untuk bayar downpayment or untuk sediakan rumah secukupnye...

after this..i will story mory about preparation to start a new house =)

khayra is the name

we only decided the name when she is 9 months in my tummy... i alwez like qalisya or alisya name but hubby refuse... then i watched wolverine movie where his gf name is khayla... lawakan nama ni..but no meaning..so google...found khayra...immediately roger my youngest brother who blaja jadi tahfiz n tanya ada maksudkah nama ni....then he said maksudnye kebaikan....hokey cun! ade maksud!

we decided to put jus one name as i think itu paling afdal la... kn?kn? kang nama canggih2..last2 panggil pendek je yang ntah ade maksud ke tak...

since balik dari hospital sampai la umor dia 7 weeks ( almost 2 months), baby tido siang amat la lena... tapi tepat jam 12 tengah malam...thats it....time dia bangun dengan super dasatnye... bangun tuh kalo senyap je tak pe...ni nak orang ngadap dia...borak n dokong.. agaknye dia dah penat baring sepanjang siang... nak tidokan dia balik..memang mustahil la.... kol 6.30 pagi pas azan subuh...atomatik dia tido...perghhh.... anak aku ...anak aku....

ramai la orang bagi petua...antaranya.... pakai kan baju terbalik...jangan bagi tido pas asar.... jangan macam2 lagi la...tapi 1 pun x berjaya... at last i google2 and found out baca surah al-kahfi... well surah tuh panjang sangat...so daddy and atok baca la dr pas maghrib sampai almost isyak...then baby alhamdulillah...ade la tido nye... walo baby bangun setiap sejam...at least...i got a chance to take a nap...

now baby dh 2 months old... dh cerdik...dh panjang akal...dh tido malam... so...dont worry mommies out there...baby akan change her sleeping time by herself... but...ade baby samapi 3 months baru change to normal sleeping time... ada yg sebulan...so...it is upto the baby...

bak kate atok " itulah pengorbanan seorang ibu"

love my baby so much!

khayra abes pantang =)

berpantang

hello ols...

semua orang tahu...pas bersalin je kene berpantang..
orang cakap pantang ni untuk kurus n get into shape... well..berpantang bukan sahaja untuk kurus...tapi untuk kesihatan dalaman dan luaran..dalaman bukan tut tut tut je... segala urat n otot2 n perut n yg penting rahim kite tuh nak dipulihkan seperti normal... so then...kite bley prepare for the next baby... n kite sihat untuk jalani hidup as a mommy =)

well..my family memang sangat kuat pantang...pergh...memang tough! menguji kekuatan mental...fizikal takdela... dalam pantang mane boley angkat berat2... so..mentality kene kuat kalo nak pantang betul2!

when u almost give birth..benda yang u have to consider is..nak pantang ke tak nak...kalo nak pantang...nak pantang camne... pantang seminggu ke, 2 minggu ke, 30 hari ke, 44 hari ke, 60 hari ke... *i think max is 60 days* ...tak tahu la family orang lain camne... tapi family saya pantang 44 hari.... why 44 hari..saya tak tahu... tapi memang 44 hari...

my family nye pantang list :

- urut seluruh badan 3 kali berturut-turut dari hari 2 day sampai hari ke 4...
- for a month mandi air serai wangi and ape2 ntah daun lagi (bidan tukang urut biasenye dh preparekan)...
- makan - no sugar no oil - so please imagine
- makan - no benda2 gatal, no ayam, no seafood, no sayur except for lobak putih
- drinks - air ubat periuk sahaja!!! kalo dahaga giler minum air asam jawa... lepas 3 hari my mom bagi minum air milo kosong (kosong means no sugar, noo milk)
- drinks - jangan harap ko dapat minum air masak - my grandma ckp it makes u bloating n buncit...
- pakai param n pilis... param kat badan untuk buang angin, pilis untuk elak kn angin royan n spy x sakit kepala - buang angin badan r kiranye...
- berbengkung - my family ade bekung turun temurun since 30 years ago...super kuat super panjang... 5m panjang nye...hang belit la badan hang macam ular sawa belit hang ketat2 for 24 hours!! buka time mandi je...pastuh setiap couple of hours buka balik n ikat sebab my mom cakap lepas 2 hours mesti  longgar dh...
- urut lagi hari ke 15
- urut terakhir hari ke 45 - sengkak kn perut..sengkak perut ni actually nak masuk kan rahim kt tempat asal..ye r..ms nk bersalin kan perut kite ke bawah, bile push, rahim memang kt bawah la... so...to make your tummy firm, sengkak perut tuh... camtuh la...

banyak juga pantang larang - bagi saya..ikut je la cakap ibu...kesian dia prepare macam2 untuk kite dalam pantang...so...telan aje... ibu kate makan ... i makan... jangan makan ni... i tak makan... mcm tuh la... so far... alhamdulillah..me dh back to my original weight before kawen - 48kg... bdn sihat...even tak cukup tido..
pasni i crite pasal my baby yang tak tido malam for 2 months!!
adios!

little angel was born

alhamdulillah....
assalam u ols... sudah berzaman x conteng2....
arini baru ada masa nak conteng blog sendiri....almaklumlah...dah ada baby nie...memang busy...
rasa 24 jam ni tak cukup... nak tido pun tak cukup!

just nak announce...on 17 may 2012 at 3.01pm my baby girl lahir ke dunia secara normal at DEMC...
doc nak induce...me taknak... nak natural labour pain... memang painful...tapi itulah nikmat jadi seorang ibu... bile dah beranak dah sakit baru la kite tahu perasaan ibu kite camne... sekarang baby 2 months old..alhamdulillah sihat.... semakin pandai..semakin manja... tapi takpe..mommy suke!

banyak sangat benda baru kite belajar since jd mommy nie...lagi2 bab baby ni...mesti kene tanya orang yang lebih berpengalaman..kalo tak tanya...habis la... memang serba blur... warna tahi baby pun kene observed taw! banyak sungguh kn....

below is my angel umo 1 day....

my name is KHAYRA

aat DEMC is choose Doc Fairuz asyikin...very soft and polite doc... insyaAllah next baby pun nk appointed her...when is the next baby??? tunggu dulu..bagi mommy bernafas...

still adapting a new life as mommy and wifey.... luckily hubby ringan tangan and jenis x kesah...for this 2 months memang tak masak la i... hubby tapau je....but...bile baby dah makin bijak n dah besar sikit...boleh la masak balik...baking n such... yang penting..kemas umah n basuh baju baby... both are important for your baby comfort and health!

okey la...nnt share experience penjagaan pantang, penjagaan baby...ragam baby n such... muax!

preparation for 1st anniversary

hye u ols...

my 1st year anniversary is just around the corner...2 weeks to go...
wow! time do flies so fast....
at the same time i'm counting days for our little angel to come out... we cant wait...
as i am going back to shah alam in a week time...*i am not taking early leave*...my office offer to work in subang as they need me to help them finish up all the reports which dateline are on may...takut kene buat sorang2 la tuh...

anyway...i know i did not prepare anything for my hubby...
but...i do have something in mind...i wanna bake choc cake n ice cream cake - larat ke tengah sarat ni nak baking... adoilah...
but..i found this website....  joy of baking.. http://www.joyofbaking.com/ which has this amazing super simple choc cake and yet it looks delicious... well...i hope i tak bersalin lagi time tuh..or else... terpaksa la tunda sampai i abes pantang.... hurmmmm...

and as a gift...i tak tahu nak bagi apa... i will buy a card for sure.... 28hb ni nak g jalan2 kt piramid...i think la... so... bley la curi2 g beli card yg exclusive sikit kn... ye la... 1st year anniversary kn... mesti la nak best sikit..

anyway..ni my plan A...i mesti ade plan B...which is... i nak order cupcakes tulis... HAPPY ANNIVERSARY.... lagi pun i kn ngah ngidam wondermilk cupcakes nie...nyum nyum....

ok la frens...will update the celebration next time! have a great week =)

ekonomi keluarga

hello u ol....
pagi ni as me sorang2 kat opis..mencari mood untuk type report.. suddenly terpikir i want to write something abount money and family..

alhamdulillah i am 9 months now...counting days for this little angel keluar... tak sabo rasanye..
semuga semua berjalan lancar, selamat and sihat...InsyaAllah..

me and hubby sekarang tinggal di pahang..tinggal di rumah sewa yang simple.. kereta dua pintu hubby punye.. alhamdulillah semua keperluan mencukupi..syukur..

sememangnya saya selalu berfikir...selepas kawin mesti lebih jimat..lebih kurang duit yang akan dibelanjakan... tapi sebenarnye...ia sama sahaja... mungkin cara membelanjakn wang itu perlu betul.. jgn terlalu syiok belanja sampai berhutang... memang ramai yang cakap..."ala...hidup berdua...anda berdua je yg tau susah senang"... ye...memang betul...hny kami berdua je yg tau..kami ada duit ke x ke..cukup ke x ke...

sejak saya bekerje..saya memang ada buku khas yg saya catat segala apa yang saya kene bayar (hutang), apa yang wajib saya bayar macam duet parking, duet credit card, duet bagi parents etc, then saving, baki barulah guna utk duet sendiri.... jadi cara ini saya terbawak2 sehingga kini...

walaupun hubby bukan jenis catat perbelanjaan..tp menjadi tanggungjawab saya utk memulakannya... then bile kite dah catat...barulah hubby taw... BETAPA BANYAK NYE DIA BELANJA.... kalau x...dia asik tanya..mana pegi duet eh...mana pegi duet eh... so..catat!! catat setiap perbelanjaan walau benda yang kecil..

credit card - ye...pakai credit card itu indah! nak apa...slash saja... sign...dapat!! saya ade 2 credit card...suami pun ada 2 credit card... sy guna credit card untuk shopping...hubby guna credit card untuk hampir semua benda... sekarang..setelah pikir n discuss elok2.... yes.... we are cancelling the credit card..
bila takde hutang credit card...maka xdela membazir bayar bulanan sampai 600 - 900 kat credit card! tapi perlu simpan satu for emergency..emergency in terms of accident, hospital bills...n not emergency as heels patah =)

k la...nanti saya sambung lagi.... saya nak type report jap...

**all pic credit to google image =)

vacation??? cancel!!

heylo everyone... =)

last month i did mention that i planned to go for a holiday...
well..sadly... it did not happen for a very strong reason...
no..not me...i have not giving birth yet...
but due to respect of the lost of my beloved father in law...
it is a big lost...so big... *we miss u abah*

thinking of how excited he is to see our baby girl... makes me cry...
there was one time...i really want to eat buah dokong *i think it spell dokong or dukung*..
he went up and climb the tree at pluck the fruit for me...and waiting for us to come home...
he even fell as the tree is a bit slippery *raining time tuh*
i am sooo touched

dont worry abah...
we will pray for you everyday everytime
we will bring baby girl to visit you when the time is right..

thank you so much for everything
we love you
we miss you

AL-FATIHA